how do you deal with people when i say really stupid things? i have a hard time with this? not with some of the stupid questions.. getting enough protien? calcium? iron? etc.. cuz i know i asked them too.. people genuinely dont know.. i understand that.. people only know what is told to them, only know what is “displayed” to them on commercials, billboards etc.. but it really makes me angry sometimes.. any advice? i was talking to my grandma (God bless her) and she knows im vegan.. well i was telling her that this girl that was coming over to my house to hang out was a raw foodist.. and briefly explained what that was.. now, she thinks im CRAZY cuz i dont eat meat, dairy or eggs.. makes fun of me ALL the time.. which drives me CRAAAAZZZYY… but then after i finished my sentence she said.. “oh my gosh, it gets worse?” AAAAHHHAHHAHHAHH!!!! WORSE!!??? no grandma, IT GETS BETTER!! and she laughs.. as if everything i say is just some silly little unimportant thing.. and i get that from several people that are family… if they were total strangers or just people i knew i could brush it off alittle easier.. but these are people who love me.. and who i love.. and i just dont feel significant to these people.. “silly little girl”... who is grown, graduated from college, served in the united states army, and has been married for 5 years.. cant i have some validity?